Flirting

Definition:  Behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but without serious intentions: “it amused him to flirt with her”.

Do you really like the person?

  • What do you like about them?
  • What qualities do you like?

Flirting tips

  • Eye contact
  • Touching arms (but be subtle)
  • Laughing
  • ‘Accidentally get close’
  • Pay them compliments
  • Smiling
  • Tell jokes
  • Make nice gestures ie. little gifts or notes or texts
  • Don’t be too smutty

Is it mutual?

Want to know if it is mutual?

  • Trust your instincts.
  • Send a text message or try to find out.
  • Do you notice that the person avoids you and does not respond? If so the chances are it is not mutual.
  • Be aware, some people in love behave just a little aloof and surly because they do not know how to cope with their feelings.
  • You’re bound to be disappointed if it’s not mutual but at least you can move on. Better than letting a crush overshadow your life.
  • Making your feelings known takes guts and people recognise this.

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